Inspiration

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I’m excited to announce that I will be attending Brit Mums Live this year along with my lovely coblogger at Each Peach Pear Plum, Sarah.

The event is taking place this Saturday, the 25th of June at The Brewery in London and is known for being the biggest, buzziest blogging and social media conference in the UK!

We are being sponsored by an exciting new start up called Just Us Box, a monthly dating subscription service, who are starting a Date Night revolution! Challenging couples all across the country to disconnect from their screens, phone and laptops and participate together in a date night with a difference once a month.

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Founders Charlotte and Mandy, like Sarah and I, met through their children a few years ago and decided to start a business together. Like many busy mums, Charlotte also noticed the fact that she and her husband always seemed to be last in the priority list and wanted to do something about that, for herself and all the other mums, dads and busy couples across the country.

We all know that life gets hectic, I talk about it with my mummy friends all the time. What with the children needing every iota of your attention, the housework, actual work, friends and family it can seem that your relationship ends up at the bottom of the pile. Months go by and all of a sudden you notice the distance between you and realise Date Night is very much required!

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Creators of the ultimate Date Nights, Just Us Boxes are especially made for busy couples who want to reconnect with each other. The monthly subscription box (from £25) contains all you need for your own themed date night including props to create the atmosphere, goodies, fun activities and challenges that promote love, laughter and lust.

Each month will have it’s own theme and we are excited to share with you that the first month’s theme will be ‘Let’s go Stargazing’. You don’t get much more romantic than watching the stars together do you? I’m thinking warm summers evening (come on summer!), a picnic blanket laid on the grass, lanterns flickering, a glass of rose and the company of my lovely man…. and I’m already sold! But we also know that the Just Us Box team have added many thoughtful extras to guarentee a special evening to remember….

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And that’s what it’s all about isn’t it? Those little moments together that create extra special memories. I mean we all love our snuggle nights on the sofa watching Game of Thrones, not that I even have time for those these days with Babylish deciding sleep is overrated, but they all blur together in the end. It’s the nights that are a bit different, where you are inspired to do something a little different that you remember.

Keep an eye on Lish Concepts and Each Peach Pear Plum for our reviews of the very first Just Us Box and to find out how our stargazing nights went. And if you are heading to Brit Mums live yourself this year, keep an eye out for us, we will be the ones wearing telepscope necklaces, say hi don’t be shy!

Once again a big thank you to Just Us Box for sponsoring us. Looking forward to igniting the Date Night revolution with you!

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When it comes to decorating your little ones room how much of a say do you let your child have?

Interestingly three quarters of parents DON’T actually involve their children at all, because they believe it is quicker and easier to make the design decision themselves. They also admitted they liked to match the bedroom to the style of the rest of their house and their own personal tastes, rather than the wishes of their child.

I totally get where these parents are coming from because children have some crazy ideas about what they would like in their bedrooms… treehouses, slides, trapdoors, glass ceilings, oh my!

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But according to a recent study by Dulux there are infact many benefits of getting your child involved in the decorating process and the impact this can have on their development is actually really quite important. Developmental Psychologist Dr Sam Weiss explains…

Children typically create little things, but the bedroom is the first real, permanent thing that they can influence. Involving a child helps them to establish their own inner space and the image that they want to project to others. And for parents, having a chance to work together with their children can really help to establish a stable, respectful relationship. Children, when given a chance to be in charge of their bedrooms, respond positively: they feel a sense of pride, they spend more time in their bedroom, and they become more inclined to keep it tidy to show it off to their friends. For these reasons, and more, I think it would be wonderful if more parents involved their children when decorating their bedroom.

The research asked 2,000 families their thoughts on decorating children’s rooms and it turns out it’s a really big deal for kids. In fact when asked about their most important life milestone, kids say that decorating their bedroom is the second most important thing they have ever done, just behind hosting a birthday party and above their first day at school, and losing their first tooth.

When it came to Littlelish’s room I knew she would want to get involved in the design process. She loves colour and design and has such a clear idea of what she likes and doesn’t like, that I knew she would want to provide her input. With our house being somewhat chaotic during the renovation I really wanted somewhere lovely for her to retreat to. Kids are amazingly resilient little things and she has been so great despite the massive turmoil jobs like rewiring and plastering seem to create. I wanted her and Babylish to be the first to have their rooms decorated so that they have a space to call their own and enjoy, away from the madness.

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She had chosen her bedroom colour as soon as we moved into the house, at age six and three quarters she has moved away from the pink and now her favourite colour is a very cool minty greeny blue colour. We’d found that Dulux had the perfect shade of mint macaroon for her walls but what else did she want in her room?

I could only imagine one problem with involving Littlelish, a huge fan of the Dengineers (who create wild and wacky rooms for children on tv), she has a wild imagination which meant we were potentially going to have to create a feat of engineering in her bedroom or find a magician! Did you know that the number one thing most children want in their bedroom is a treehouse? Littlelish was in fact no exception to this…

What do children most want in their bedroom?

1, Treehouse  2. Slide  3. Narnia style wardrobe  4. Swing  5. Trap door  6. Glass ceiling  7. A stage  8. Jungle  9. Space rocket  10. Pirate ship

Littlelish and I brainstormed themes, there was some great inspiration on children’s bedroom themes on the Dulux site as well as tutorials for some amazing techniques for creatiing an impressive wow factor! The videos have been designed around kids’ passion points, from avid bookworms looking for a place to spark their imagination to would-be astronauts looking to jet off to galaxies beyond. The storybook themed bedroom appealed to my little bookworm as did mermaids and a sport themed room, but then just as I was all excited about going into mermaid overdrive (I love mermaids!), much to my surprise she decided she didn’t really want a themed room after all! Back to the drawing board we went…

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Dulux storybook themed room

So I asked her what I’d ask anyone when designing a room – What is important to you and how do you want to feel in the room? I often find that is a good place to start, it gets you thinking about the function of the room and how you want the room to make you feel when you are in it. We use rooms for very different purposes and it is really worth thinking about this when considering the decor. She knew very clearly that she wanted a room she felt happy in so I asked her what it was that made her happy…. and the answer was icecream and sweets, sunshine and ice lollies, smiles and hugs. So that is what we decided to go for! A room where she feels joyful, inspired and loved surrounded by icecream colours, sunshine and cute fun details.

I made her a moodboard (see above) so she could get an idea of the colours we could use with the mint green and we looked online together for decoration details and shops that we could find them in. This made her very excited and she really felt part of the process, choosing what she liked and didn’t like for her room.

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Inspiration for our happy room – kawaii!

Before we could get painting we had to replaster the room, sand the floors and paint all the wood work. It required a lot of patience from all of us! But after a week or two we were ready to go. We decided to use the Dulux Endurance+ paint which is 20 times tougher than standard emulsion and the perfect choice for kids rooms and playrooms as it is wipe clean! Actually we could do with using this paint in the rest of our house thanks to Buddy our Labrador who likes to make a mess just about everywhere!!

As it was the first time we had used Dulux Endurance+ we didn’t really know what to expect but I’m pleased to tell you that it painted like a dream. I could quite possibly go as far as to say it was the best paint I’ve ever used for ease of application and coverage. The colour is absolutely beautiful, a really soft, yet warm colour, like a warm sea breeze on a summers day, if I was being poetic! So the room is all ready and now it is just a case of adding the furniture and finishing decor touches. Will you check back to see the finished room very soon?

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Image source: Grey likes baby

Well the Lish household renovations are well under way and finally after completing a lot of work we don’t actually get to see, like rewiring and rendering the outside of our house, we can actually check one room from our very long to do list! The road was long… the room needed replastering, the floorboards sanding and everything needed a fresh coat of paint… but finally we have a nursery!

We decided that Babylish would have the privilege of having the first finished room in the house as a kind of welcome to the family present. Although infact she currently sleeps in our room, we loved making a little sanctuary for her and all her things for when she eventually transitions to her own room. Now as the only completed room in the house it is quite often my little sanctuary and I go in there just to breathe and remind myself how beautiful the house will be when it is finally finished.

Creating a babies nursery is a wonderful project as you can explore many different directions, themes adding loads of fun, sweet elements. Childrens rooms along with playrooms are perhaps some of my favourite rooms to decorate because you can let your imagination run wild and yeah yeah, I’m just a big kid!

After scouring Pinterest for inspiration I decided I wanted to create a serene nursery for our new arrival. There are so many fun, colourful ideas out there but we are lucky enough to have a playroom downstairs in our house for colour explosions and I wanted her to have a calm, peaceful place to sleep and relax in because we all love babies who sleep well at night don’t we?

Before starting an interiors project I always create a brief for myself. So to start out creating a moodboard I take 5 key words for the look and feel of the room and choose 5 images to portray them. My words for Babylish’s room were serene, light, soft, magical and dreamy and here is my final moodboard for inspiration…

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I love the soft greys and pinks and the element of magical woodland that crept in there… and then it was time for the hard graft! We (and by we, I mean he!) sanded and waxed the floors so they have a kind of stripped back old pine effect and settled upon Cornforth white by Farrow and Ball for the walls. This is an extremely popular grey by F&B as it gives a lovely warm, dusky feel to the grey, like you are being hugged by a lovely soft cloud (albeit a slightly rainy one). With the backdrop finalised we added our nursery furniture which was a hand me down from Littlelish and has a lovely antique feel to it. It was then time to start accessorising and adding the cute finishing touches to bring the room together. Keep reading this week for the final reveal!

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