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We have some issues, already for quite some time with Littlelish and preschool. I’ve tried to ignore them in the hope that it is just a phase and they will pass but Littlelish says she hates preschool.

When I asked her today why she hates preschool she told me it was because she “already knows everything that is important in the world”.

“Mummy I know about listening, about holding hands when you are told to, about being kind, about playing with others.”

What’s more she said she hates the activities at school, she hates writing, she hates reading… Quite frankly it’s leaving me a bit worried. Especially with her starting school this September.

There is no doubt that Littlelish is an exceptionally bright little thing. We’ve known it since she was small. I know all parents think their child is bright but Littlelish really is. She can sound out 3 and 4 letters words which means she is already reading basic books. She can spell and write short words too. Her vocabulary is outstanding for a child of 3. She uses words like captured, injured and gulp on a daily basis and if you ask her the meaning of some really grown up, complex words she will be able to tell you without hesitation. She also speaks Dutch and can translate between the two languages. She is really into science in a big way and will be able to tell you all about gravity and earthquakes if you ask her.

I’m sure it’s all linked with her being highly sensitive and we are really just trying to understand it all and figure out the best way, as parents, to deal with it. I’m very much led by her and what she wants to do. I never force work or activities upon her (nor could I, she is so strong willed). Mostly she likes to be social, play with her friends or make up imaginative games. Sometimes I feel guilty, that I should be pushing her more, to develop her obviously very capable brain but then I think she is so little, knows so much already I’d rather just let her have fun and relax. After all she will be at school soon enough.

Yesterday we found out which school Littlelish will be joining in September. It’s a wonderful, small school with a very warm, friendly atmosphere. I’m hoping it will suit her sensitivities well. But I’m also so nervous about how she will take to a full day spent on learning activities. Especially as many of the initial activities, phonics, numbers etc are things she has known for more than a year now. I’m hoping to goodness they are prepared to work with us on providing activities that will stimulate her and not leave her feeling bored and uninspired.

Which is exactly how she seems to be at preschool at the moment, not being challenged by her peers or teachers is really getting to her. She has even started to occasionally speak like a baby again which as I just read in this excellent article (about young gifted children at school) is often the case when trying to fit in with their peers. Littlelish is a child with a true love of learning, I really hope we can give her the education she deserves when school time comes around!

 

 

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Littlelish: Mummy, what colour is your soul?

Mummylish: Oh good question, I don’t really know!

Littlelish: (Thinks a while and then says) It’s white. Souls are white and they get greyer and greyer the older you get.

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Littlelish: (looking grossed out) Mummy, this kidney bean… is this um, a real kidney? Because humans have kidneys in their backs you know… and I wouldn’t want to eat one.

Mummylish: (smiling) No darling, it is a bean in the shape of a kidney. Good girl for knowing about kidneys, where have you heard about them from?

Littlelish: Oh I know everything about the world and the human skeleton…

Mummylish: Oh right I see :)

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She’s  3 and a half but we’ve already got to that stage…

(It’s dinner time)

Littlelish: Looking forlornly at her dinner… Muuuuum, did this turkey have to die so I could eat it?

Mummylish: (No way to tell an untruth here) Um. Yes darling it did.

Littlelish: Oh well then I don’t want to eat it.

Mummylish: Ok, if you really don’t want to that’s fine…

Littlelish: (Thinks to herself for a while) Pasta doesn’t have to die does it mum? It wouldn’t run away while a hunter was trying to catch it, would it? Giggle giggle…

Mummylish: No darling it wouldn’t.

Littlelish: Yeah I’ll just eat pasta.

Groan…. pass me the veggie cook book!

We were thrilled to be invited down to London Zoo on a blogger sponsored day out by the lovely people at Virgin Money. It was just what we needed after all the events of late, a little mummy and daughter adventure!

I challenged myself to drive down to London, excited to be heading to the city and my old neighbourhood after many years. The sun well and truly had it’s hat on and we knew it was the start of a great day out :) Driving past my old haunts, the school I used to go to, the cinema at Swiss cottage, we animatedly chatted about the day ahead until we reached Regents Park and our destination London Zoo! We parked up and quickly made our way to the main entrance where our hosts for the day, Julie and Max waited patiently.

After a quick brief and hello to the other mummy bloggers we were let loose into the zoo! What to do first? Littlelish grabbed a map and beamed with pride at being allowed to choose where we went. Our mission of the day according to Littlelish was to find the sweetest, cutest animal in the zoo… what would it be? She decided our first destination was the aquarium, it’s the first thing you see as you come into the zoo and we do enjoy a good aquarium. Littlelish navigated us round, still clutching the map. She definitely liked leading the way. We saw big fish, little fish, our favourite was the show off sting ray who entertained us with his funny ray smile. Littlelish was curious to know why his stinging tail didn’t sting all the other fish in the tank! To which I did not have an answer ;)

After a good look in the dark aquarium we ventured blinking, into the bright sunshine, next destination – the giraffes. Littlelish was convinced there was a baby giraffe who she needed to see! We went via the hunting dogs, warthogs and okapi who Littlelish thought were so cool with their stripey tights on!

Once we arrived at the giraffes we climbed up the frame to get a look at the them up close while they munched away on their branches. Littelish was desperate to get even closer and attempted to scale the barrier. She said they looked very soft and would like to stroke them and I have to say I agree! Lovely, graceful animals :) We didn’t find a baby one, only one which was a little shorter than the others – was it a baby? I’m still not sure…

We then headed over to the sticky rainforest to spot some monkeys but had to leave rather quickly as Littlelish couldn’t stand the stench, puffing her cheeks up and not daring to inhale the smelly air! It did make me chuckle. Our next stop was the nightlife area, funnily the dark didn’t phase her at all! She loved watching the bats and we especially loved the loris because it looked so cool! Definitely a contender for the zoo’s cutest animal don’t you think?

We scooted past the meerkats, lemurs, otters and reindeer and decided we would make our way to see some monkeys! The Gorillas had a fantastic enclosure and the coolest of play areas, Littlelish and I decided we would like one of these rooms in our house!!!

It was now time for a spot of lunch we wrestled our way to a free table where we could snack on our packed lunch. We’d been warned that the restaurant was pretty pricey but I have to say the food did look excellent and I felt a little hard done by tucking into my sandwich while everyone was having a nice hot meal. We treated ourselves after lunch with a nice refreshing ice lolly :)

After refueling we headed off to meet the other mummy bloggers and the virgin media team for the penguin show over at Penguin Beach! We managed to get a spot and heard all about the new penguin pool, how the Zoo are trying to keep the environment as natural as possible, they even feed the penguins through a ingenious drain pipe construction which means the penguins are not being fed by human hands but rather the fish is falling directly in the water for them to catch it more naturally. They also explained to us just why a penguin is black and white and no it wasn’t a cheesy joke! The birds are black on their backs so as not to be spotted by predators from above against a dark blue sea and light on their fronts so as not be be spotted from below against the white light as it shines into the water – camouflage, how clever!

It was now group photo time by the lions who were lazily lounging in the sun. There was no time for lordly lounging for us as we still had plenty to see! We headed back to the butterfly pavillion to admire the beautiful butterflies. Littlelish was particularily pleased they weren’t in cages and were free to flutter around. After the butterflies it was on to the other creepy crawlies which I was rather glad were in cages! Spiders, cockroaches and scorpions… no cuties in here!

We had made our way all the way to the back corner of the zoo but here tucked away is in my opinion one of the best areas of the zoo – Meet the Monkeys! An area of the zoo where you can enter the squirrel monkeys home where they run and jump free. On our way in Littlelish noticed the picture of a little boy with only nine fingers! Needlesstosay touching the monkeys was not allowed. She listened well to these instructions but I wasn’t sure she would! Especially when the little boy next to her stroked one and said, mummy it’s soooo soft! Ooops!

One part of the squirrel monkey home is a hide where you could look through binoculars to see the monkeys in the bushes. The cheeky monkeys only came to say hello at the side window, jumped onto the binoculars and off out the other side window!! These were definitely the zoo sweeties we were looking for, absolutely my favourite!!

Next along our path was the area of the zoo designed especially by children for children – Animal Adventure. Always a recipe for success this was definitely Littlelishs favourite part of the zoo. A giant tipi where they do storytelling, chickens roaming around, a special childrens cafe, even a water play area for on a hot day. The specially designed  playground was awesome, creative and original and I literally had to bribe her away from the teletubbies style climbing hill! Luckily there was something even more exciting round the corner, the petting zoo! Littlelish has always loved the farm and has absolutely no fear of petting animals. And finally she had found her cutest, cuddliest animal at the zoo… a goat!! She named it whitey black black and spent a good 20 minutes hugging it much to the amusement of some Japanese tourists who started taking photos of her! It was rather cute.

The sun was starting to set so we popped past the llamas and alpacas and tried to spot the difference between the two, watched the camel spit, took a quick peak inside the old elephant house which I remember from being a small child. We said hello and goodbye to the hippo as we made our way to the exit.

I was proud of Littlelish, she managed to walk the entire way round the zoo, never complaining, taking it all in and loving every minute. We had a fantastic day together, it was good to be doing something fun together and making some memories. I have such fond ones of London Zoo as a child so it was lovely that it was something we could now share.

And Littlelish found her cutest zoo animal… Whitey Black Black!

A huge thank you to Virgin Money and Carat Media for organising a wonderful day out.

Our top 10 things to see and do at London Zoo

1. Meet some cheeky squirrel monkeys and see if you can climb like a squirrel monkey

2. Have a play in the childrens area, see how fast you can climb the hill!

3. Hug a goat in the petting zoo!

4. See if you can spot the Loris in the dark

5. Listen to a story in the childrens tipi

6. Admire some beautiful butterflies in the butterfly pavillion, see if you can spot the camoflaged ones!

7. Say hello to ray the show off sting ray

8. Watch the giraffes munching on their lunch with their long tongues!

9. Learn more about the penguins and meet ricky the rockhopper at the penguin show at Penguin Beach

10. Go and meet an okapi! What’s an okapi? Go and find out :)

 

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I haven’t posted a ‘through the eyes of a child’ post for a while. I used to find it was wonderful to share all the funny, innocent pearls that come out of my daughters mouth. Yet it seems recently Littlelish is growing wiser and wiser by the day. She sees things with so much clarity, a perspective way beyond her 3 years. There is not so much childish naivety to laugh at, she sees the world through deep, bright, sparkling eyes.

Today we were sat at the dinner table, just her and I (as Daddylish was working). She suddenly launched into:

“Mummy when I am older, I will have a flower shop. Yes, I will have a lovely flower shop in town that people can walk by and come into to shop. I will live above the shop with my family. I will have 4 children, 2 girls and 2 boys and a dog. And I will still be Littlelish”

This is the first time she’s actually spoken about what she wants in the future and it really touched me. I questioned “why a flower shop?” and she answered quite simply, “I like flowers, they make me happy”. It reminded me how important it is to stop and look at things with the eyes of a child now and again, remembering the simple things that we love, the things that make our inner child happy. After all it doesn’t have to be so difficult, like Littlelish put it at the end, we are still the same little girl or boy…

What did you want to be when you were little?

 

Big Questions Infographic

INFOGRAPHIC: What Big Questions are on Your Child’s Mind?

One day I really should take note of just how many questions Littlelish asks me a day! It is literally a constant stream from the minute she wakes up, one after the other after the other! She really is the Queen of questions. So far this week I’ve had – Do dogs get splinters? Why do cars have ears? How do flowers get their colours? What would happen if you cooked a person? Do jellyfish have eyes? I do my best to answer them patiently but sometimes they are just too bizarre or complicated to explain! My school days feel like quite a long time ago…

So when we got the chance to review the new BIG questions from little people book we jumped at the chance! This is absolutely perfect for Little Miss Curious :)

Complied by Gemma Elwin Harris, the book contains over 100 real questions from children age 5 – 12 and more importantly the answers from some of the most knowledgeable experts in their field like David Attenborough, Richard Dawkins and Noam Chomsky. Conceived to raise money for the NSPCC, over half of the advance and royalties from sales of the book will go directly to the charity – brilliant!

When we first got the book I turned to the list of questions at the beginning to see if any of them particularly captured her interest. Turns out she really wanted to know “Why we dream?” which I thought was great as I am fascinated with dreaming too. She also wanted to know if “bees sting other bees?” which had a really interesting answer, which I did not know! I LOVE the idea for this book, I love it so much I wish I’d have come up with it myself. The book is so well executed with a brilliant variety of questions, ranging from the serious to the very silly! All the questions are answered in an incredibly clear, understandable, appealing way which make it great for kids to understand. Even Littlelish who is only 3 listened closely to the answers. The humourous way in which many of the answers are written definitely helps to keep attention of little ones.

I’d say it’s the perfect gift for inquisitive children of all ages – heck even this big kid here LOVED reading it…. and perfect for mummies and daddies who like me, don’t know the answer to questions like “why does the moon shine?” “why is wee yellow?” and “why do we have music?”

Big Questions by Little People goes on sale on the 4th of October for £12.99 (hardback and ebook)

Find out more about Big Questions from Little People at

These past 2 weeks I’ve been experiencing life as a single mother, working more than 1 job (my new day job and my freelance job), while my husband has been away for 2 weeks on a business trip. It’s been rather emotional. I’m a well balanced, happy, relaxed type of person and I enjoy life at my own pace. I stop and take the time to chat with Littlelish, to admire the cloud formations and refresh myself by gazing out over sunny fields (yes I’m a dreamer!). I like to enjoy the little moments, moments of stillness, moments of reflection and moments of togetherness. This gives me peace in my heart and undoubtedly make me a happier, more pleasant person.

I do not manage very well when life runs away with me, when I have to motor at an incredible speed through the day just to get places on time and everything ticked off my checklist. Then my days are fast paced, hectic and not that enjoyable. I’m sure for many of you this is normal every day life and I really admire you for being able to manage it all. After having Littlelish I was introduced to a whole new world, a slower one where you can really be in the moment and not thinking about all the things still to do on your checklist, what next? To me this is a beautiful way to live and it has helped me grow and become much happier for it. I am complete when I have more time to be the person I want to be rather than some stressed out, scatty, maniac women….

So this week I’ve learnt what is good for me and what is not. I know my limits. Down time at some point in the day is important  to me and working during the day and during the evening is not ideal. Mostly I’ve learnt to absolutely savour my moments with Littlelish and push everything to the back of my mind when she is talking so I can be in the moment with her :)

One of those such moments this week, Littlelish and I were in the bath together. She turned to me and said “Mummy I am scared of dying. I don’t want to die. I don’t want to die alone, will you die with me, Mummy? I won’t be able to remember anything and who will have my stuff?” Pretty heavy conversation to have with a 3 year old I think you’ll agree so I just assured her there was nothing to be afraid of and she would grow to be an old lady with a family of her own and she would have children to pass her things onto. This made her happier and she repeated that she did indeed want to be an old lady and have children.  I tried to remain strong and matter of fact for her so as not to leave a trace of fear but all this talk of mortality did leave me a bit wobbly.

Only this evening, after paying a visit to my grandma, who together with my mum did something very sweet for me (a real gesture of kindness) did I realise something. When I thanked her for her kindness she said to me “But that’s what I’ve been put on this earth to do, take care of all of you” and I realised that she was right.  And so while we might have jobs to do, bills to pay, houses to clean, dreams and aspirations, we’ve all been put here on this earth to be first and foremost mothers and fathers and sisters and brothers to each other. Family is everything.  And taking a line from one of my favourite songs (I’m Yours) simply because it was playing when I was giving birth to Littlelish: “We’re just one big family.”

Love you Littlelish, Nanny, Mum, Dad, Daddylish, J and G and the rest of my wonderful family (you are all included here!)

Jessie Ware – Wildest Moments.

Even more so because Littlelish thinks it goes “Leave me in the wild, snowman” :)

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Littlelish: Mummy, can Bobby (our pet rabbit) have a facebook account? Mummy, what IS a facebook account?

Mummy: It’s an account on your computer where you can share things with your friends like photos and messages.

Littlelish: Oh. Can I have a facebook account?

Mummy: No darling you can’t…. you can have one when you are 18 ;)

Littlelish: Ok…. Well Bobby the rabbit is 18.

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